Something to think about:

If or when at a crucial crossroads, the decision that must be made does not strike you as difficult...if you don't even hesitate at the idea of what you are leaving behind, what you're ultimately giving up, the risk to come and what might actually happen if you go through with it, then, my dear friend, it can only mean that you are far from ready...either that or you have been living a life from the sidelines, a life that would not hurt if you were to lose it, and that is no life at all.